National Certified Addiction Counselor, Level 2 (NCAC II) Practice Exam Exam

What role is typically associated with the eldest child in families affected by addiction?

1. The Hero

2. The Lost Child

3. The Mascot

4. The Scapegoat

The correct answer is: The Hero

In families affected by addiction, the role typically associated with the eldest child is often that of "The Hero." This child frequently assumes a leadership position, taking on responsibilities beyond their age and working to compensate for the perceived dysfunction caused by the addiction. They strive to maintain family stability and often feel a strong need to achieve and excel, presenting a facade of success to the outside world. The Hero's role arises partly from the chaotic environment created by addiction, where family members may struggle with their own issues or do not fulfill their roles appropriately. The eldest sibling often feels an innate sense of duty to protect and uphold the family's reputation, which can lead to pressure and high expectations placed on them. While this role may initially seem beneficial, it can lead to long-term stress, burnout, and an inability to express one's own needs and feelings, as their focus is almost exclusively on the family’s well-being rather than their own. Understanding this dynamic is crucial for recognizing the complexities present in families dealing with addiction.